Vanessa Valadez (28), Andy Klingensmith (24) Chicago, IL
A recently available transplant to Chicago, Andy came across Vanessa at a concert summer that is last. Vanessa instantly indicated her long-time wish to have a relationship that is open and after 90 days together, the 2 started earnestly checking out non-monogamy.
Citing psychological state as a huge determining factor in her choice to pursue non-monogamy, Vanessa describes that she had for ages been insecure and jealous inside her past, monogamous relationships, though she had for ages been interested in being available. In belated 2017, she states she started using antidepressants and became a “entirely various person” one sans insecurity and envy, in addition to possessing of the “larger, much deeper knowledge of the thing I desired.” Afterwards, she decided that she ended up being prepared to pursue non-monogamy something which she states she clarified to Andy if they met up the next summer time.
“clearly, the older we have, the less monogamy makes sense in my opinion,” Vanessa states, describing that she actually is constantly simply truly liked getting to understand individuals and forming relationships with them if they be platonic or intimate. “I do not comprehend limiting my partner or becoming limited if my partner is devoted to me personally.Read More